I was invited to take part in this Meme which called Simply Successful Secrets, by Christalmond. I was asked to list habits for success that have worked for me. If you want to join in, you can read the rules here.
I’ve asked the following bloggers/Friends to try on this:
1. Sky Window
2. Chry1
3. Dylan Jones
4. Simonesu
5. Justin
My 10 tips of success are…
1. Do not try to think too much – People tend to think too much, too detail when they face problem. Maybe the problem is not too serious, but after too much of think then become complicated & difficult to solve. So, for me, I will treat all the problem as simple easy problem, and I can easily solve all of them.
2. We need help from other – We are lonely ranger in work life, we need help from colleagues, friends or boss… Do not feel shy to ask for help, and you’ll be sorry for not solving the problem on time.
3. Be calm – People who get angry easily would not win the battle, simple like that.
4. Think positive – People need to think positive all the time, if we think negative, the negative result will come out. Detail refer to here
5. Reading is our best friend – We can find everything in Books. I like to read, I read everyday. No matter, comic, magazine, newspaper, website, blogs & etc… I think the most important books we need to read is Bible.
6. Stay happy & cheerful – I always try my best to make myself happy. I collect all the jokes surrounding and try to cheer other people, and at the same time, I cheer myself too.
7. Be a helpful person – I always believe that “I help people, people will help me too!” and it’s work!
8. Confident – Self confident is needed. We need this, we really need this. In chinese saying, If you do not have self confident, you lost 90% of the battle before you go to battle. We should have this thinking “If you think you can, you can”. We got nothing to lose, we come to this world with nothing, and we no need to scare of losing anything even we lost in our battle. So, fight for our life, our pride.
9. Luck – I think I’m a son of god, I always have a very lucky day. When I face problem, I always got the 3rd party to help me (sometime, I do not even know that person). I always got the right person to help me at the right time. I believe in god, I knew he always stand beside me to guide me. That’s not luck, is god.
10. Support – Everybody need support, I equipedhe 9 items above because I got support from my love one. Without her, I’m nothing. So, all we need is to find a person who always stand there to support you, no matter what condition, even though everyone turn against you, but she/he is still the who let you know “You still have hope, you have me indeed!”
Emmm… These are my little tips of success, hope it may help you…
April 3, 2007 at 6:59 am
Your advice is really interesting. I totally agree with your first point – less thinking makes problems easier to solve. Maybe that’s because of the way we are often taught to think – by making rules and following them. Much of our thinking behaviour is just there to sustain itself but has very little to do with the external world.
‘Be calm.’ So simply put but totally essential advice. This world can make us annoyed at insignificant things because we can do nothing or little about the important problems. I agree we can do much more in a state of calmness.
Thank you.
April 3, 2007 at 10:15 pm
Thanks for the comment. For me, I actually prefer reading the most, I can calm myself with books. Try it yourself, you will see the result…
April 4, 2007 at 3:33 am
Thank you so much for participating in the Simply Successful Secrets project!
I will agree with Christ that your advice about not thinking too much is solid. All of your points were great points, but that one stood out the most for me personally.
I am very detail-oriented, so I used to think things out in a lot of detail, but I have taken control of that habit so that I still get the usefulness of it, but not the potential negativity that comes from doing it to the extreme.
Thanks again for sharing your success secrets!
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sorry Alan I’m not a tagging person hehehe =P choose someone else!!!! (but thanks for inviting 😉
April 4, 2007 at 3:23 pm
Thank you for tagging me ..as i know i dont have any secret for the success..but for my advice :-
1. seek advice from the elder and people that really in the way of success
2.Be open and honest to the friends that you trust
3.Feel respect to the people and get respect from them
4. communicate is the best things you have to do when want to success..talk and listen
5.alway acknowledge
Here i hopefully you can success ..wish you the best luck that you can have the best that you can expected 🙂
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May 20, 2007 at 5:37 pm
You can add me to the list of people who agree with your first point, Alan. Oh, yeah. And confidence is a good one, too. Now that I think about it, they go hand in hand. If we over-think something we can destroy our self-confidence. Thanks.
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