Relationships: Lessons And Thoughts from Starlight make me think, I feel I like to add-on something on it.
Never leave someone you really care about , even if that person has done something wrong, hurt you. It might be that there’s no way back when you’ll want to change your decision.
>> Do not say anything when you’re angry, you’ll regret afterwards.
Be careful with giving relationship a status. I’ve never heard it from anyone, so don’t know maybe it’s just me. But I noticed that whenever in any good relationship people start to give it definitions, acknowledge the significance of this relationship and of each other, express feelings about it, or, in other words, give a relationship some status and special meaning (even saying I love you), from that moment it’s doomed and nothing is the same anymore. Until we shift focus of attention from other things that this friendship was actually all about to that relationship itself, there was no reason for doubt and insecurity. It was just free of any limitations and it was comfortable. As soon as people give relationship and each other some status (and start to have higher expectations), everything changes. I don’t know if that means definitions are limitations. I didn’t find a solution yet. Probably there should be enough confidence and proof that it’s true when talking about meanings and feelings.
>> As I always mentioned in my blog, Do not hope for something in return for any relationship. Expectation ruin the whole picture!
Do not pressure, except when really necessary.
>> Love is a relax activities carry out by 2 person, we do not need any pressure, thanks.
Do not hide it from another person if something about relationship is causing discomort. Any problems should be solved, not ignored.
>> Simple, Just voice out your point of view is enough.
Keep balance between giving too much attention and giving too little attention. It’s really harder to do than it might seem.
>> too much = pressure, too little = ignorance
Best advice that I found at one site is: Whatever you decide, don’t do anything you’ll regret later.
>> Yes, do not do anything which you may regret later. I heard this once from a girl I love deeply.