Love = Hate, true?

Love = Hate? How can?

Love mean the care/afflection to someone, but hate mean the dislike to. Both stand at the opposition position. How come they will be equivalent to?

But,

When we really think about it, is there any divider between Love & hate. When you don’t love a person, normally you will hate the person. When you don’t hate the person, sometime you will fall in love with that person too.

When love is gone, normally hate will come into picture. Love & hate => good friend! They always come to find the same person. When the person found love, he found hate at the same time. Is so ironic!

I think the you may agree with me when you see this picture.

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Smile, Care & Love

There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she’s blind.

She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He’s always there for her.

She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she can see everything, including her boyfriend.

Her boyfriend asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?”

The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend is blind too, and refused to marry him.

Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying.

“Just take care of my eyes dear.”

This is how humans change when their status changes.
Only few remember what life was before, and who has always been there in the most painful situations.

Today before you think of saying an unkind word
Think of someone who can’t speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food
Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife
Think of someone who’s crying out to God for a companion.

Today before you complain about life
Think of someone who went too early to heaven.

Before you complain about your children
Think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.

Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep
Think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before whining about the distance you drive
Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.

And when you are tired and complain about your job
Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.

But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another
Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.

And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down
Put a smile on your face and thank God you’re alive and still around.

Respect people, respect ourself.

RESPECT  —n. 1 deferential esteem felt or shown towards a person or quality. 2 (foll. by of, for) heed or regard. 3 aspect, detail, etc. (correct in all respects). 4 reference, relation (with respect to). 5 (in pl.) polite messages or attentions (give her my respects). —v. 1 regard with deference or esteem. 2 a avoid interfering with or harming. b treat with consideration. c refrain from offending (a person, feelings, etc.).  in respect of (or with respect to) as concerns.  respecter n. [Latin respicio -spect- look back at]

We should respect people around us all the time, because we also wish that we can gain respect from them too. For me, I do not agree/accept all the action which will cause disrespect to others, such as:

1.    End the phone call without any prior notice (Very rude)

2.    Look down to other people due to their status, qualification

3.    Take advantages from others (try to cheat people)

4.    Try to think how to cheat people (already consider other is stupid)

5.    Ignore others phone call (even though it is a call from Boss)

6.    Ask people to do the thing that you resfuse to do

7.    Give other people the things which you do not want (unless in kind of donation)

8.    Think everyone need to respect you (nothing so great about you)

9.    Act like you are the most suffering people in the world

10.     Treat love as a games of life  (Who are you?)

There are many other action which will make other feel uneasy, disrespect. For eg. there is a business in Sealtle which make a good business by some trick to attract customer (especially male customer). They hire beautiful ladies to sell coffee. Maybe most of you think this is normal to hire ladies to sell coffee. Yes it is normal, but this coffee business in seattle is different from what you think. They ask the staff to wear sexy clothes (such like baristas sport hot-pink hot pants and tight white tank tops) to attract customer.

For me, this idea is a dishonour action to female group.  Do they think female only can do business with sexy outfit? Do they think male only will buy thing from female due to their sexy outfit? Click for the detail

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What is the basic moral level nowaday? I wonder…