-Promise which I believe-

promise  —n. 1 assurance that one will or will not undertake a certain action etc. (promise of help). 2 sign of future achievements, good results, etc. (writer of great promise). —v. (-sing) 1 (usu. foll. by to + infin., or that + clause; also absol.) make a promise (promise not to be late). 2 (often foll. by to + infin.) seem likely (to) (promises to be a good book). 3 colloq. assure (I promise you, it will not be easy).  promise well (or ill etc.) hold out good (or bad etc.) prospects. [Latin promissum from mitto miss- send]

I’m glad that there are people promise something to me. I’m really happy on that… I’m not use to make promise to others, except 2 persons. I kept all my promise, and remind myself everyday. I’ll avoid all the possibilites to break my promise. So, I do not wish that people who make promise to me and they do not actually keep it. Haiz… Unfortunately, We’re not saint. Some people will break the promise with some reason “wat to do? if they keep on forcing me” << wtf, “nobody can force me to do the thing that do not wish todo” <<

If nobody can force you to do something, why you drink again… Do I do any mistake which lead you to do so? Do I? Please advise.

To all,

Next time, before you wish to make a promise, please make a achieveable promise or you can just put some expiry date on it. Thanks.

DSvT

-My Own Secret Recipe-

Not only cooking we need recipe… In life, there are many different recipe when we deal with others…

In my company there are many type of dishes… and there are unique recipe for all of them too. Some we need to cook slowly (need longtime negotiation), some need strong fire to fry it (need to shout at them), some need to boil (need consistent follow-up), some need to eat raw (accept only, no negotiation)… etc. I think I had equiped 60% of the total recipe…

In love, there more recipe to learn, some secret recipe need to discover, secret stage. But, I do not encourage people to use SEX as a tool for love. Making Love (sexual intercourse) doesn’t mean it create chemistry in love, sometime it destroy everything. Please do not think that you can win someone’s heart if you willing to have sex with them…

DSvT

-No Additional Value added-

Nowaday, people go for the foods which without any additional value (color…etc) added. Some people like to have some plain coffee without sugar or creamer… We all need something is pure, original, plain to maintain our healthy.

Beside foods, I think when we make friend, we shouldn’t add any value (hope, expectation… etc) on the particular person. agree with me? Friend is friend, is just another ordinary person you know who ready to help you anytime. Please bare in mind, friend always think their best to help us when-ever needed. “ready to help” & “try their best to help” doesn’t mean that they MUST help us. Some people thought that friend MUST help them when-ever they faced problem. This thinking is wrong, we must change immediately.

On the other case, everybody in the world will have their partner, wife, husband, girl/boy friend who they care about. Do you know, even they are someone special to you, but yet they’re individual person who live on the earth with their own spirit and soul… They’re your partner, wife, husband, girl/boy friend because of FATE. We can not expect them to do anything for us (unless is their own will). They do something for us mainly due to they love/care about us, but when they refuse to do something for us, it doesn’t mean they do not love/care about us. People just add too many expectation/demand onto their partner, wife, husband, girl/boy friend, this can make them run away from us. It is because Expectation on people = Stress/pressure we put on top our relationship. Friend, please stop to request your partner, wife, husband, girl/boy friend to do this and that for you, ok?

For me, I wish to have plain, pure friendship with everybody without any EXTRA value added.

DSvT

Blogs make me think…

Today I have some spare time to read others blogs…

Some blog’s (sample)article really make me think… I love to read their words, so meaningful, so close to our real life… their words really touch my heart…

I support a sentense which taken from “Sex and the City” - “Remember that men can sleep with a woman and then feel nothing about it” << is true, Love is Love, Sex is Sex… we can not mix up these 2 different items. Some people just think they sacrifice something for their love-one and they will get back the equilvalent love from them. I can tell you that some guy they have sex with you is just because they have the desire for sex and not because they love you… maybe they do not even remember you after that… Please do not blame them for doing that, they do not force you to do so…

Girl, please think about it twice before you plan to sacrifice something for your man…

DSvT

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I love You!

Emmm…  Baby, I want to say this out loud so that everybody also can hear it. I would like to let everyone of this world know that I got 2 people who love me very very much… I would to fly over to KK and hug you once I see you (no matter how many people surrounding us at that time)… How I express all this feeling thru phone? How you can see my cheer on my face… “Smile” always hook on my face while I talking with you in da phone tu…

I’m lucky to have you in my life! Thank god that I call you that night… Thank god that I msg you in MSN on 17/Mar’06… Thank god for everything to save you from your illness… Thank god that always let me to have your voice in my life…

Here I pray that god will send you to stand in front of me… Let me take care you from that day onwards… (Is OK that maybe you will bully me sometime~~ Hehe…)

With the name of Jesus I pray, Amen.

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Resignation

I think I talk about resignation of my colleague previously (Don’t at which blog)

24/Jan’07 – Another member of mine resigned from his post of R&D Engineer… His senior resign before him. For me, he do not dislike our company, but influence from his senior. His senior manipulate him and make him confuse —> then lead to resign…

Why I have Such thinking? Yesterday 26/Jan’07, I have some conversation with that senior of my member. Let’s address the senior as FL. FL worked for my company for more than 10 years. He can be consider as specialist for PCB designer. He started his business last year beginning, and he plan to resign in order to concerntrate to his business on Aug’06. He treat his boss as good friend (work under same department for 10 years), he decided to prior inform his boss on the resignation planning. He promise his boss that he will finish all the on hand job and will train a successor for the PCB design job. So, the actual date for leaving will be around Jan’07~Mar’07 (included 2 months notice). Everything just ok until the bonus distribution date… He got underpaid on the bonus, average of people got 2pts, but he only got 1.4 pts. He felt that he being betrayed by his boss. So, he take back all the promised items, he would not train any successor anymore. He still will finish all the on hand task until the notice is complete. Wow… Just like the movie, I think.

For me, the story should be already tell to my member which make him feel unsecure working under the same boss, so he resigned. Haiz…

For me is easy, We had been paid to work, and we work in order people continue to pay us. I dun really care anything about betray or royalty. Boss is boss, me is me… I finished my job without any mistake, that mean I had done my JOB WELL…. God will know all about this…

Today only 27/Jan’07, my company already lost 7 elite… Do not know who is the next… maybe is me tu?? hahaha…

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Review my past…

Emm… Day before yesterday…  I read thru all my jotted diary at http://alanlim.wordpress.com… I recall all the sweet and bitter memories of mine for past 1 year…

I would like to take this oppurtunity to thank all the people who help/advise/love me in de past ~ present…

Thanks!

DSvT

Trust!

I need this “Trust” a little bit more onward my dearest…

Sorry for making you angry, cry yesterday… Sorry…

I will trust you from today onwards & I would not listen to other people comment anymore… unless the informationwas informed by you… ok? deal!

Sorry again… Just to let you know, I felt angry due to I love you so much!

DSvT

Please understand…

My Blog is my virtual diary…

I jotted down every single feeling in my heart in this special dedicated blogs of Alan Lim…

Just simple as that!

DSvT

Take care yourself tu…

Look around you everytime, everyway you be… ok?

Just don’t hurt yourself again,ok? My heart will pain de wo…

No matter when, where, what time… Makesure you’re safe,ok?

나는 당신을 사랑한다

DSvT